The easiest way to forgive is to forget. Sounds cool right? They always say that line. For me that is true. Many people said that they had already forgiven the person that hurts them but actually not. They are only saying it so that their guilt feelings will vanish but still they can't admit to their selves that they haven't forgiven that person because the pain remains in their heart and that pain is not yet forgotten. We must forgive the people that hurt us even though the pain in our heart is very deep. We must forget what had happened so that we can say that we had already forgiven them to the things that they had done to hurt us accidentally or intentionally.
I already experienced being hurt by many people especially my classmates whom I trusted the most. I didn't expect that they would hurt me. I really felt betrayed when they hurt me because our friendship grows deeper before the time they hurt me. I learn how to forgive because I can't take the pain anymore. I forget what happened and act normally. Now, that we had our reunion, I didn't feel betrayed anymore even though we are not friend anymore because I already forgive them.